relationships???????????????

We can habitually witness folks talking about relationships. Some populace value their relations and a few ill-fated ones don’t. Even I had my own take on relationships. Few months back, if any one would have asked me what is relationship all about, my answer would have been the way crow flies; RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT A WALL STANDING ON FOUR PILLARS: TRUST, RESPECT, UNDERSTANDIING AND ADJUSTMENT.
How ethical and justified it reverberates. And I know most of us will see eye to eye with my this take on relationships. Trust is the first and fore most things which plays the root of any relation. Then comes respect, for a relation to prolong respect among individuals is very indispensable. Third pillar, understanding. In relation the saying, SOME THINGS ARE BETTER NOT SAID BUT UNDERSTOOD must always hold true. And finally comes adjustment, to live a contented life perpetually one or the other has to fine-tune somewhere for their much-loved ones. And hence the recipe for perfect relation. Sounds so effortless, wish our life would have been simple in the same way.
As time grows, people become skilled. Even I had petite experiences, terrific ones and terrible ones, which made me alter my previous deliberation about relationship. After a diminutive expedition, I found out that sometimes even the greatest relations may not consist of above four pillars or sometimes even these four pillars cant make the relations great. Then what is the mania or the perfect recipe for a long everlasting relation, in whose search most of the people are.
Few people are in relation for pleasure; few are in relation for the sake of other person, the other left ones don’t even know why they are in relation. Most of them don’t know how long will they carry with the relation, others don’t want to think about it and the left ones make plans of beautiful nurturing relationship.
All and sundry wants someone or the other to share their happiness with, sadness with or in short to create a bond which lasts forever. But what can really make the bond last forever? What can make the relations nurture instead of breaking up. The question still remains the same………………………what’s the recipe for A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

the angel and the devil.......

Angel is always regarded as the genuine fellow and devil is regarded as its ghastly counterpart. I still have down pat with the fairy-tale enlightened by my granny about the wrestle between the angel and the devil, and in the end, the guardian angel winning by conquering the devil. I always used to wonder why always angels triumph and devils loose, and out of curiosity used to query this to my granny. She was always geared up with the answer and a smirk. Smile was warm and answer was pleasing telling me the basic equation of life, that in the end everything goes good or the angel has to win and if the angel doesn’t win, it’s not the end. Jingles very filmy………..as most of us presuppose, but REALITY IS STRANGER THAN FICTION. Then how can anecdotes be totally diverse from veracity???????
Leave-taking from all this and returning back to our topic. As I nurtured up, I comprehended that the angel and the devil were just not constrained to chronicles of granny. But they do exist in apiece entity.
Every human being has two elements. A good part-angel and a bad one-devil. This need not be attested by any verification as in our day to day life we see many such episodes which proves the statement, that within us lies a angel and a devil. In our life, it has happen countless times that our friends ask for something which is cherished by us, and then we launch conversations within ourselves whether to give or not. At that time we think of pros and cons of giving thing. But in the end we understand that our friends need that thing so leaving all deliberation aside we give it.
This is nothing but a very fair instance of wrestle between an angel and devil within us. The angel always endeavors to take us to our legitimate and unadulterated part, and devil tried to deviate us from the same. In the consequences, I already mentioned, the fight between the two starts. If the angel be triumphant, we help the other person and try to make him pleased and if the devil wins, our selfish part takes hold of us and hence taking us far-flung from better side of us.
This way our life is jam-packed with consequences where we have to deal with diverse situations where we often get into dilemma. This is nothing but the fight between the angel and the devil within us, and it totally depends on us, to make who win. Devils obviously take the short cuts, different ways to win. But where the happiness lies is in the winning of angel. We just have to wide awake and know where angel within us lies and to make him win under any circumstances, eventually to be an enhanced personage. And until unless we are admirable to others, we are not supposed to expect marvelous ness from others. KNOW YOUR ANGEL AND MAKE IT WIN.

when in love.........

Falling in love is amazing, falling in love is exquisite………only those who are in love can discern the real gist of love and those who are not in love will for obvious rationale, fall in love one day………so this post is just for every mortal in love, in the offing to be in love or not waiting to be in love……….
When in love, a personage is in seventh heaven. The smile on your face, the façade and its grace, all are worth noticing, as full of glory and charm. In love there always subsist two phases a blissful one and a gloomy one……….leaving the miserable phase of flouting apart, just jotting down the sad phase when the relation is in full swing.

The joyful part is far from indulgence of this world.
One plunks in the worst day of life and still smiling having the contemplation of their dearly loved, parents reprimanding for talking on phone for hours but still the gaze is at the cell phone and hands just waiting to pick the phone up, hates going outside in summer but when the beloved calls, jus running as if there is no sun or not heat. Expecting watch to get rapid so that you can meet him early. Dressing to our best as if the person is looking for the first time, and then waiting for that complement. Coming back home and thinking about the meet for entire night with those digging eyes on cell phone for the call to fix on when will the subsequent meeting take place………….the world seems gorgeous, with no tribulations, and if problems, they doesn’t matter. Just blushing all the way. This was the good part of being in love.
But until unless there is no villain in the story, story seems unexciting. So if there is good part, there has to be appalling part.
Bad part launches when you call your beloved and his cell is on waiting, you call yet again but still on waiting. You ask him to meet but he can’t meet just because he is busy. Sometimes when he is not there to listen just because he had a hectic day, when you want to talk something special and he starts talking about the split seconds spent with x. He doesn’t commit to memory about what you said though you might also forget many things. ……………..and the list goes on…….
This is love, far yet so in the vicinity of, bizarre yet so happening. ……..aching yet remedial…………….its just amazing.