We can habitually witness folks talking about relationships. Some populace value their relations and a few ill-fated ones don’t. Even I had my own take on relationships. Few months back, if any one would have asked me what is relationship all about, my answer would have been the way crow flies; RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT A WALL STANDING ON FOUR PILLARS: TRUST, RESPECT, UNDERSTANDIING AND ADJUSTMENT.
How ethical and justified it reverberates. And I know most of us will see eye to eye with my this take on relationships. Trust is the first and fore most things which plays the root of any relation. Then comes respect, for a relation to prolong respect among individuals is very indispensable. Third pillar, understanding. In relation the saying, SOME THINGS ARE BETTER NOT SAID BUT UNDERSTOOD must always hold true. And finally comes adjustment, to live a contented life perpetually one or the other has to fine-tune somewhere for their much-loved ones. And hence the recipe for perfect relation. Sounds so effortless, wish our life would have been simple in the same way.
As time grows, people become skilled. Even I had petite experiences, terrific ones and terrible ones, which made me alter my previous deliberation about relationship. After a diminutive expedition, I found out that sometimes even the greatest relations may not consist of above four pillars or sometimes even these four pillars cant make the relations great. Then what is the mania or the perfect recipe for a long everlasting relation, in whose search most of the people are.
Few people are in relation for pleasure; few are in relation for the sake of other person, the other left ones don’t even know why they are in relation. Most of them don’t know how long will they carry with the relation, others don’t want to think about it and the left ones make plans of beautiful nurturing relationship.
All and sundry wants someone or the other to share their happiness with, sadness with or in short to create a bond which lasts forever. But what can really make the bond last forever? What can make the relations nurture instead of breaking up. The question still remains the same………………………what’s the recipe for A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
How ethical and justified it reverberates. And I know most of us will see eye to eye with my this take on relationships. Trust is the first and fore most things which plays the root of any relation. Then comes respect, for a relation to prolong respect among individuals is very indispensable. Third pillar, understanding. In relation the saying, SOME THINGS ARE BETTER NOT SAID BUT UNDERSTOOD must always hold true. And finally comes adjustment, to live a contented life perpetually one or the other has to fine-tune somewhere for their much-loved ones. And hence the recipe for perfect relation. Sounds so effortless, wish our life would have been simple in the same way.
As time grows, people become skilled. Even I had petite experiences, terrific ones and terrible ones, which made me alter my previous deliberation about relationship. After a diminutive expedition, I found out that sometimes even the greatest relations may not consist of above four pillars or sometimes even these four pillars cant make the relations great. Then what is the mania or the perfect recipe for a long everlasting relation, in whose search most of the people are.
Few people are in relation for pleasure; few are in relation for the sake of other person, the other left ones don’t even know why they are in relation. Most of them don’t know how long will they carry with the relation, others don’t want to think about it and the left ones make plans of beautiful nurturing relationship.
All and sundry wants someone or the other to share their happiness with, sadness with or in short to create a bond which lasts forever. But what can really make the bond last forever? What can make the relations nurture instead of breaking up. The question still remains the same………………………what’s the recipe for A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
2 comments:
communication!...dats d solution...pillars may b so strong bt u cant say dey cn hold ur relationship strongly as long as u dont hv strong base 4 dose pillars...n communication s d base 4 al of dem..u need 2opn ur heart in frnt of d odr prsn...some things cn hurt him/her 4 a moment may b 4 some longer period of time...bt things can never go wrong with proper communication...
i agree with kalpesh...communication indeed helps. But again the person on the other end needs to be sporting and receptive. As for your take on relationships...the four pillars exists only for our parents. Today relationships falter just coz one or more of these pillars are weak.
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